Let it Go

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He broke up with me over text—because nothing says “mature” like hiding behind a screen and hitting send. lol
Here’s how I got through it (without texting back!) and found healing that didn’t involve stalking his WhatsApp last seen.

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I always imagined our breakup would involve tears, maybe a café confrontation, or even one of those “it’s not you” lies. But nope.
He just sent a message.
A breakup over text.
Followed by silence.

For anyone who’s ever had their heart yeeted via emoji, I see you.

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This Wasn’t a Breakup. It Was a Notification.

There’s breaking up, and then there’s just disappearing behind a screen.
Getting dumped over text felt like ghosting—but with a side of lazy typing. He sent me a sloppy message that looked like it was written in Notes and fired off without a second thought.

This is the new normal—especially in situations like grey ghosting or emotional burnout where one person decides to disappear while technically “informing” you.

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Let’s Talk About Text Breakup Etiquette

Some say it’s better than ghosting. Others think it’s cowardly. Truth? It depends.

A late-stage situationship or a one-month “talking phase”? Sure, maybe a text is enough.
But a real relationship? With actual memories and shared passwords? Nah.

Even in a long-distance breakup, there are kinder ways to say goodbye.

If someone can spend months with you, they can string real words in a real conversation. We deserve that.

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What Helped Me Get Through It (Besides Deleting His Number 4 Times)

I know everyone says, go no contact. But I didn’t just stop texting—I stopped justifying why I needed more from someone who gave me the bare minimum.

I downloaded Let It Go on a whim. That first night I used the No Contact Tracker, wrote a journal entry that just said “WTF WAS THAT,” and binge-read breakup stories from strangers who felt like friends.

Somewhere between the crying and the scrolling, I stopped checking for his read receipts.

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PSA: Healing Is Real and It’s Actually Kind of Funny

Now, weeks later, I still get mad when I remember the text. But I also laugh. Because the same guy who couldn’t talk about his feelings now lives rent-free in a breakup app’s memory log. Iconic, honestly.

If you’ve been through a digital dumping, you’re not dramatic. You’re not “too emotional.”
You just deserve more than a cold little message that ends with “take care.”

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📣 Blocked the boy. Now glow-up deployed.

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