Let it Go

So, you’re wondering if there’s some sort of spell or ancient incantation to bring your ex back, right? Well, while I can’t guarantee a magical wand or a potion for eternal love, let’s talk through some almost mystical steps that might just work better than you’d expect. Spoiler: It’s not about stalking their socials at 2 AM or sending them that meme you think is hilarious. Here’s how to undo your breakup and brew up some real sorcery in your emotional life, step by step.

Step 1: Cast a No Contact Spell

The first step is so simple it almost feels like a trick. It’s called No Contact—and yes, you’ve probably heard about it, but did you know it’s practically magical? It’s like the “sleeping potion” in fairy tales. You step back, you stop texting, calling, or checking if they’ve been posting on social media. It gives you both space to breathe, heal, and evaluate your feelings without the emotional chaos. Think of it as the “peace and quiet” potion for your soul.
(Need a little guidance on how to set your No Contact timer? Check out our blog for more on No Contact.)

Step 2: Master the Art of Self-Care Alchemy

While you’re under your No Contact spell, start working some self-care magic. Whether it’s getting lost in a book, treating yourself to a spa day, or learning a new hobby, self-care is your secret elixir. You’re not just healing your heart; you’re revamping your emotional toolkit. This might even make you look so mysterious that your ex will want to know what’s going on in your world. Remember: The best way to cast a love spell is to love yourself first (cue the “love yourself like Kanye loves Kanye” vibes).

Step 3: The Dreaded Texting Return: Don’t Do It Yet

You’ve been out of the scene for a while, and your ex is suddenly sending a “Hey” text. It’s not the grand romantic gesture you think it is. It’s more like a test. Resist the urge to reply immediately. If you truly want to pull off your love sorcery, don’t break the spell just yet. You need to be that elusive wizard who has mastered the art of “mystery.” Respond too quickly, and you’re just a simple mortal—delayed responses make you the wizard with the power to leave them wondering.

Step 4: The “Reunion Charm” (aka Casual Meet-Up)

Now that you’ve played it cool and your ex is caught in the web of curiosity, it’s time for the final act. Casual is key here. You’re not sending a “I miss you” text—nope, that’s for the desperate muggles. Instead, suggest a low-pressure hangout. A coffee date, a quick catch-up, but make sure it’s in a neutral, fun setting where you can both be yourselves, free from the old baggage. This is where the real magic happens—the natural chemistry will either be there or not. You can’t force it. If you’ve done all the other steps, you’re on your way to mastering the art of subtlety.

Step 5: Know When to Let It Go (The Ultimate Spell)

Here’s where the real magic lies: knowing when to let go. If your ex isn’t feeling the vibes, then the best thing you can do is release them back into the universe. Sometimes, the strongest spell is the one that sets them free. It’s not failure, it’s freedom magic. And trust me, the right person will come along when you least expect it, and they’ll be the one who recognizes the wizardry within you.

Want more enchanting advice on handling heartbreak? Let It Go is here to help you navigate your journey to self-discovery, whether that means rekindling an old flame or letting go to make room for new, more magical things.

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