Let it Go

A breakup spellbook, Let it Go edition.

Okay, real talk. If you’ve ever thought, “I hope they see me thriving and quietly suffer,” congratulations: you’re human. That flicker of wanting your ex to miss you, stalk your stories, or spiral a little? It’s totally normal. But we’re not here to be petty. We’re here to be poetic, powerful, and maybe just a little unhinged in the name of self-love.

So here are 7 healing-but-chaotic ways to make your ex jealous—Let it Go style:

1. Soft-launch your rebirth arc.
No explanations. No dramatic posts. Just a casual new haircut, you surrounded by plants, and captions like “Somewhere between healing and a renaissance.” Let them zoom in and wonder who you’ve become.

2. Go main character in places they thought you’d avoid.
Hit up that mutual café. Wear something that makes your aura feel expensive. Order something new. Smile at the barista like you’ve never cried in a bathroom stall. Let your presence rewrite the past.

3. Fall in love—with your own weirdness.
Take pole classes. Learn the banjo. Start dressing like your Pinterest board. When you fully lean into your quirks, you become un-copyable. That’s jealousy fuel they can’t touch.

4. Mute them. Don’t block. Let the silence drip.
You’re not angry. You’re just uninterested. Mute their stories, their posts, their name from your mouth. The absence? Deafening. That’s the sound of dignity.

5. Become untaggable.
Be out. Be fabulous. But tell your friends: no tags, no location. Let them hear about your glow-up from other people. Let them do the stalking work. You’re an offline legend now.

6. Post things that sound like freedom.
“Woke up with no ache today.”
“I don’t chase—I attract.”
“Soft, not sorry.”
These aren’t subtweets. These are your love letters to yourself, publicly delivered.

7. Be joyfully unavailable.
You’re booked. With healing. With hobbies. With hot strangers and healing playlists. Jealousy doesn’t come from who you’re with. It comes from how much you’re not thinking about them.

At Let it Go, we don’t chase revenge. We glow from within. And yeah—sometimes that glow hits your ex like a freight train. We don’t mind.

✨ Ready to channel this into your own story? Download the Let it Go app and explore the blog. Set your No Contact timer. Write your ritual. Get support. Let them go—and watch the magic unfold.