Let it Go

You feel it, don’t you? That sinking, gut-wrenching feeling that something’s off. The texts aren’t the same. The calls are more obligation than excitement. And deep down, you know you’re being strung along. A long-distance relationship isn’t supposed to feel like a slow, agonizing death—but when it does, it’s because it’s already over. Here’s how you know you’re just wasting your time.

1. They Barely Text Back (And When They Do, It’s Dry AF)

You used to get paragraphs. Now? One-word replies, ghosting, and the occasional “haha.” Don’t fool yourself—no one is that busy. If they cared, they’d find a damn second to talk to you.

2. Plans Keep Getting “Postponed” (AKA Canceled Forever)

Remember that trip you were supposed to take together? Yeah, it’s not happening. They keep pushing it back, making excuses, and acting like meeting up is a chore instead of something to look forward to.

3. They’re Always “Too Tired” or “Too Busy”

Newsflash: No one is too busy for someone they actually give a crap about. If they’re too tired to FaceTime but somehow wide awake to post selfies and hang out with their friends, you already know where you stand.

4. You Catch Yourself Making Excuses for Them

Deep down, you know they’re not trying anymore. But instead of calling them out, you find yourself justifying their laziness. “Oh, they’re just stressed.” “Maybe they didn’t see my text.” Stop lying to yourself. If they wanted to be there, they would be.

5. There’s No More Jealousy (Because They Don’t Care)

Once upon a time, they’d get a little possessive when someone flirted with you. Now, they don’t even flinch. It’s not that they “trust you more”–they just don’t care enough to feel anything anymore.

6. They’re Happier Without You (And It Shows)

You scroll through their socials, and wow—look at them living their best life while ignoring you. No texts, no check-ins, just vibes. If someone can go days without talking to you and feel nothing, take the damn hint.

7. They’ve Stopped Trying to Make You Feel Wanted

No more compliments. No more “I miss you” texts. No more late-night calls just to hear your voice. It’s like you’re an afterthought now, and that’s because… well, you are.

8. You’re The Only One Still Fighting for This

When was the last time they put in effort? If you’re the only one initiating calls, making plans, and trying to hold this mess together, it’s over. And you deserve better than begging for scraps of attention.

So, What Now?

Rip the Band-Aid off. Stop waiting for them to officially break up with you—they already have, they’re just too cowardly to say it. Need help getting through this? Let It Go is the only app designed to help you cut ties, set a No Contact Timer, and move the hell on.

And if you’re still wondering, is there even a point to long-distance relationships anymore? this might give you the clarity you need.

They checked out a long time ago. It’s time for you to do the same.